It is very difficult to cope when you have lost your partner unexpectedly, and this isn't made any easier when there are children to consider. There is however, some help available.
As a widow with dependent children, you are entitled to apply for the Widowed Parents Allowance if your partner died before 6 April 2017. If your partner died on or after 6 April 2017, you should apply for Bereavement Support Payment instead. Now, even though your finances won’t be at the top of your list at this current time, it is worth checking out what extra help you are eligible for.
A Little Extra
The surviving parent of a child may be eligible to apply for the Widowed Parents Allowance providing that the child is able to receive child benefit and that the surviving parent has paid enough National Insurance (NI) payments throughout their working life.
If the surviving parent is pregnant by their deceased partner, they may also be entitled to a grant.
However, the rules change slightly if your partner died whilst at work. If this is the case then you could be eligible for the grant even if they didn't make sufficient NI payments.
Though you cannot claim Widowed Parents Allowance if you are a pensioner you may be due for extra retirement pension your deceased partner paid NI during their working life.
You will not be eligible to receive the grant however, if the marriage or partnership had ended previous to the death and it will also be withheld if the surviving parent has a surviving spouse or partner and is living with them.
A Helping Hand
This form of funding is paid to a single parent to help them maintain a standard of living for both them and the child.
The maximum Widowed Parent's Allowance is £150.90 a week. There are no longer separate payments for children.

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It is possible that if you, as the sole parent, are in receipt of Jobseekers Allowance, or other similar benefits, they will be reduced if you begin receiving the Widowed Parents Allowance.
Child benefit will also be affected if you are in receipt of extra for an only child. In this case, you will receive that standard child benefit but still be eligible for the extra only child payment of the Widowed Parents Allowance.
Your situation may be slightly different. ask a question below ↓ and our editorial team will reply with our advice.
The Application
It is important that you check what financial help you are entitled to as soon as you can, that way you will benefit the most. When you have applied for the Widowed Parents Allowance, you will receive the payments automatically to your bank, building society or even post office account.
Although your partner may have made sufficient arrangements to provide for their family following their death, having this extra reliable income will provide you with some stability in what can be in a very trying time.
Other Benefits
If you have received the Widows Parents Allowance, then your deceased partner must have kept up their NI payments. If this is the case, or they died whilst at work, then you could be eligible for Bereavement Allowance. For deaths on or after 6 April 2017, Bereavement Support Payment provides a lump sum of £3,500 (with children) or £2,500 (without children), plus monthly payments for up to 18 months.
Iv been get this benefit since 2017 and I've been looking for extra help but I'm I right in saying you can't get extra support on this benefit at all can anyone else confirm this for me I would be grateful. Thankyou.
I am a widower from Solomon Islands and my late wife died on 14th April 2019 due to serious lung cancer. I had resigned from official employment in August 2019. Whilst trying to support my 4 children, I am also struggling to repay my outstanding housing loan on monthly basis; grand loan total being @ SBD$230,000 which stands around the equivalence of 30,000 in USD.
I would greatly appreciate it if you could kindly assist me and my children one way or the other.
Kind regards,
Eddie Holara
Hello and prease the Lord
I first of all thank God that it is by His great grace that children and I still alive since we are here, because we are going through a very hard time of insecurity as refugee here and facing many challenges as well .
I wonder you are asking your self who is this pastor who is writing to us again .I am a Congolese from the East of the DR-CONGO who contacted you two year ago again , I was born and grow up in Burundi .I have received Jesus Christ as my personal savior in 1978 .I Have been called in the Ministry since 1995 ,then I went to be trained and equipped in different school of ministry mission and theology .When the political troubles of Burundi started in 2015 I left Burundi to the East of D R C where I am originated .While we was in the east of my country D R C, as there was an ethnic conflict problem between my tribe and my wife tribe conflict for generation ,my wife and I put up a project of re conciliating our two enemies tribes through a church called the gathering church that we created , but unfortunately those among our communities who was very extremist and against that project of reconciliation started to persecute us , harass us, and threatened us for killing ,we reported the case to the police, but as the eastern part of our country D R C is full of ethnic rebel groups, the situation become very worst that one day evening a group of people attacked our home and beaten my wife who was pregnant for death, and died after two days of hospitalization . After my wife death ,as my live and my children lives was in danger too , I left D R C with my seven children and come to Kenya where I am now living as a urban refugee here in Nairobi, but facing a lot of problems as a single father with seven children to raise to feed and accommodate alone ,without any sustainable support.
And actually I am facing two major problems , first is the security problem, as those who killed my wife in D R C still pursuing me whereabouts to date.So, my children and I still living daily in fearing for our lives as they know already that I am here in Kenya and has even tried to kidnap me as you could see it through some of my police report . The second problem is my health . Actually I am not totally in a good health as this situation of insecurity and stress has affected my heart that I am now suffering from a heart problem and pressure since 2018 .
This is in short the story of my life . So ,actually our pray together with my seven children is that God may help us to get a place where we could be much more protected and secure than here, because we are really daily facing a very hard and dramatic insecurity situation and our lives are in danger .
So, by God `s grace , we beseech you please to help us in any way you can and help us to get a safe and secure place to be with my children; as they are also
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Pastor Joash Okelo-Oasis of Hope Community Ministry
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Pastor Joa
sh Okelo- Oasis of Hope Community Ministry
we will be grateful.
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Pastor Joash Okelo - Oasis of Hope Community Ministry
I am a Kenyan, a widow and cancer patient. I need help in educating my daughter in aviation college. I am disappointed because she discontinued university due financial problem and now she opt leave aviation college because l have been diagnosed with cancer. Thanks
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